
Soothing Saturday: Finding My Roots… and My Core
Ah, Saturday — that glorious day when my alarm clock gets ignored, my coffee tastes like peace, and I can pretend I have my life together for at least the first two hours.
Soothing Saturday — is my little corner for slowing down and stepping away from my usual genealogy deep dives. Think of it as a gentle exhale at the end of the week — a space for reflections, small joys, and simple stories written just for the pleasure of it.
Ah, Saturday — that beautiful pause button in the week when the alarm clock gets to sleep in, my coffee tastes like calm, and the world feels just a little softer around the edges.
I woke up this morning with that rare burst of motivation — you know, the kind that whispers, “You should move today.” Not “I’m about to become a fitness influencer” kind of move — more like, “I’d like to walk up the stairs without feeling like I’ve just completed the Boston Marathon.”
So, I pulled on my sneakers (which looked slightly confused after so much time off), grabbed my jacket, and headed out the door for a brisk walk. The air had that crisp, early-morning bite that wakes you up faster than any espresso shot ever could. The leaves were turning, rustling under my feet like a soundtrack of autumn approval, and the neighborhood was just starting to stir.
I passed a few fellow walkers — the early birds who always seem to have more energy than the laws of nature should allow. We exchanged polite nods, that universal gesture of “Yes, look at us being healthy humans.”
Halfway through my route, I found my rhythm — that sweet spot where my legs stop protesting, my breathing evens out, and my thoughts settle into something resembling peace. I started noticing the small things: the smell of someone’s fireplace, the faint hum of a lawnmower, a distant dog barking as if to cheer me on. It was one of those rare moments where the world feels perfectly ordinary and quietly magical at the same time.
By the time I made it home, my cheeks were flushed, my heart was happy, and my body felt like it had finally remembered how to be a body. I wasn’t breaking any records, but I’d shown up — for myself. That counts for something.
I’m not chasing a number on the scale. I’ve done that dance before, and it always ends with me side-eyeing the bathroom scale like it owes me money. These days, I’m more interested in how I feel: lighter, looser, more connected to this body that’s been through life right alongside me.
Maybe that’s the real weight loss — letting go of the heaviness we carry that has nothing to do with pounds. The expectations, the guilt, the “I shoulds.” I’m learning that a little movement, a little self-kindness, and a little fresh air can do wonders for the soul.
So here’s my Soothing Saturday thought: we spend so much time digging into our family roots, tracing where we come from — but it’s just as important to nurture the roots we’re growing now. The ones that anchor us in the present.
Get outside, breathe deep, walk a little farther than you planned, and let your thoughts wander right alongside your feet. The path doesn’t have to be perfect — it just has to be yours.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got a hot cup of coffee waiting by the window and a pair of sneakers that are already plotting tomorrow’s excuses.
Until next time — may your coffee be warm, your records be legible, and your heart find a reason to smile. Have a great weekend!

